Am I the Problem? (AITP)

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AITP for Not Reminding My Ex-Husband About Our Son's Birthday?

AITP for Not Reminding My Ex-Husband About Our Son's Birthday?

Are the entitlement, blame shifting, verbal abuse, and gaslighting warranted?

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Melissa Kalt, M.D.
Jun 21, 2025
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I 42F was married to my ex-husband “Ken” 43M for the past 10 years. We have 3 kids together 7M, 5F, and 3M. While we were married, I took care of everything related to the kids. I managed the calendar and reminded him when he needed to be at school for a concert. I bought their birthday and Christmas gifts, planned their parties, and more. I even bought…

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