Am I the Problem? (AITP)

Am I the Problem? (AITP)

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AITP for Refusing to Cut Child Support for My Ex-Wife?

AITP for Refusing to Cut Child Support for My Ex-Wife?

When your seemingly healthy relationship meets financial abuse, collusion, manipulation, catastrophizing, dismissal, and control…

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Jun 07, 2025
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I 42M have a 17 yo son with my first wife, who unfortunately passed away when he was 2 years old. He’s always called my second wife, “Mom.” She and I also have a 13 yo son together. We divorced on good terms a number of years ago and have a good coparenting relationship. She is disabled and finds it difficult to get the boys back and forth to school and…

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